Saturday, May 14, 2011

Episode 30: Friends first or frak first? What's a Fu to do?

Meet us on the Guadalupe River with the Krewe of Swingtown: June 24 - 26
Memorial Day in Chicago. Come for the Fu, stay for the Leather: May 27 - 30
Glow in the dark party at Mystique.  Will we reconnect with our raver past?
Pro Tips: Always take time to meet new people at the club.  It will give you a chance to step away and reconnect with your partner... and to make new friends.
New couple makes an effort -- and Ms Swap Fu likes it, bi the way.
Do the hosts of at house party have to stay up? What constitutes a house party?
Today's Topic is ripped from the pages of -- friends first or play first?
How is swinging like Clash of the Titans?
Are we here to make friends?

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We get a lot of comments about our music selections.  We try to pick songs that relate in some way to the topic being discussed.  This episode's music is "Sick Muse" by the fantastic Canadian band Mertic off their album Fantasies.  We've selected this song because it deals with the way people's expectations of falling in love can get in the way of leading the life we truly want to lead.  We think that this is why so many couples specify that they want to be friends first before they play; they have an expectation to have more meaning connection before having sex with people.  Our episode topic deals with this.

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  1. Found your podcast recently when John (Swingercast) tweeted about it. I'm up to #11 and really enjoying it...need to put it on hubby's iPhone soon.

    I guess we will see ya'll on the river next month!!! I hope we don't have to walk instead of float. lol

  2. Glad you are enjoying them. :)

    The Guadalupe is at 55 cfs. Anything below 52 is not fun. We better get some rain!!

  3. I know. It may wind up being a river hike eh? lol