Episode 44: We Went to the Beach!

A 10 minutes topic turns into a freefrom, hour-long conversation about our recent trip to Desire Resort and Spa in the Mayan Riviera with the Swingercast group.

Observations and tips

There weren't many tan lines at Desire, so we decided to bring you this song by the band Tanlines from Brooklyn.  The song is called "All of Me" off the album Mixed Emotions.

Episode 43: Ever Fu-ward

1. Recapping Podcast Comments
1. Cuckolds are people too
2. The good and the bad of the effects of swinging on self-image
3. Why we don't have guests on our podcast
4. Swing can only be improved but never mastered
2. Topic: What's next for the Fu?
1. Continue self-improvement: mind as well as body
2. Going to Desire! It's a just a trip to the beach, really.
3. How we're going to dirty up a perfectly good summer
4. Stepping up the dating game and how we've been meeting new people
5. A story about trying to live with more honesty
3. What has the Fu been up to?
1. The Mardi Gras party the rocked!
2. Event host sticker mix up on Kasidie
3. Meeting swinger friends at a vanilla club
4. Going to monthly podcasts

Episode song is "Lately" by The Helio Sequence.  Find more about this Portland, Oregon band at: http://myspace.com/theheliosequence

Episode 42: Looking Back Over the Last Two Years

Opening

1. Toronto city officials asked to license swinger's clubs? http://cnews.canoe.ca/CNEWS/Canada/2012/01/16/19251646.html?cid=rssnewscanada
2. A flurry of Swinger Grindr-like apps for mobile phones. Expect more anti-competitive craziness, a la SDC and Lifestyle Longue.  Talk about the Adult Friend Finder bullshit date.
3. After so much talk about of monogam-ish relationships... where are the swingers, Mr Savage? Neglecting to consult one of the many swinger sages seems a little strange.

Topic

1. The top three changes in our perception or things we have learned in the last two years of swinging. 

Closing

1. Remember: You can post anonymous comments to our blog: http://swapfu.blogspot.com.  Respond to us there if you want people to see it.  Emails and dating sites messages are OK for private stuff, but post comments to our blog is an easy way to share with other listeners.
2. Getting the cops called on us.
3. Expanded explanation of guest list management.  Read email.
4. Upcoming Mardi Gras party: Feb 18

Not that these guys need us promoting them, but the episode song is "I Write Sin Not Tragedies" by Panic At the Disco.  Great tunes from another great Las Vegas band.

Episode 41: Casualties of the Lifestyle

The Spanker Revealed

OpeningSwingers getting a bad wrap from shows like “Disappeared”
Swingers at a family event.  What happened? Pro tip: Just invite smart friends ;)

Topics
Get Togethers -- Woop Woop!
There ain’t no such thing as a small get together
Must develop a party checklist -- the checklist manifesto by Atul Gawande
We played the LMFAO Pandora station at our get together... Best. Idea. Ever.

Good success show less-threatening porn for parties: Sapphic Erotica and Andrew BlakeGuest list management: Don't invite a couple to a party just because you like one of them. Odds are their other half won't be liked by anyone else either.

Discussing the ongoing single guy dilemma.

Burning Up at Re-entry AKA the Sunday to Monday crash

-- The dream-wake state of that first Monday morning meeting. Your head is still partying naked with a bunch of swingers and but your body is sitting on a conference call with Milwaukee.
-- You have to keep quiet about what you did while your coworkers regale you with stories about bowling and their cats.

Please share your experiences with us... how do you handle the return to normalcy?
Shout outs
Swingercast
Boris and Doris Podcast
Sparky's Open Source Podcast
Mr and Mrs W Daily
Dirtybit Podcast
Caramel Craze

Kink Neighbors

Episode music: We are loving the UK band The Vaccines and the butt-rocking tune "Wetsuit" Please buy their music, we did ;) http://thevaccines.co.uk

Episode 40: We're Not Experts, But We Know Some

What's the Fu been up to?

1. Co-hosting a party.  Shared responsibilities. Opportunity to meet new people.
2. Swinger friends rule because they get excited and bring drinks, snacks and toys!  They also care better care of your stuff and have fun!
3. Staying sober until 11:30 helped Mr Fu.
4. As hosts, be ready to meet people.  "Welcome to our home!"

Shout Outs:

1. Thank you for "flood" of responses to the gusher topic
1. Three doctors weighing in
2. We've got a lot of practice ahead of us
2. Younger swingers
1. They play, and
2. We've witnessed it! Thank you A and A

Plans:

1. Continue smaller get togethers
2. Gushing practice!
3. The New Years Eve dilemma

Our music for this episode is, once again, Metric.  This time the song is "Help, I'm Alive" off the album Fantasies.

Episode 39: Female Ejaculation -- Female Empowerment or Just a Clumsy Clinical Term

Hang in there for fun! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and Jaime

What did the Fu do?

1. Full Moon Party
2. Photo shoot: The beauty and the... where did he go?
3. Thanksgiving vs Friends Giving vs Black Friday
4. Enjoying having friends over
5. Guy with the hat update
6. We had an anniversary.  Thank you for the well wishes

Topic

1. Ms Swap Fu wants to learn more about female ejaculation
2. Squirting? Prevalence squirting101.com

Shout Out

Safety first! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and Jaime

1. Sex swing camouflage pictures! Thank you Cliff and Jaime for the awesome photos.
2. The Fu loves "The League" watch it on Netflix
3. Blog comment regarding younger swingers and whether or not they ever get down to business.  They did at 4 AM after the pub crawl
4. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
5. Support Planned Parenthood this holiday season!

I can't believe it's taken us this long to feature a song by Future Islands! We've been listening to this band pretty much non-stop for the last few months. This episode's song is "Walking Through that Door" on the album In Evening Air. Learn more about this excellent band at myspace.com/futureislands

Episode 38: What's Been Bugging the Fu's

Shout outs to long haul truckers, Australian travelers and  http://caramelcraze.com/ (Great website!!)

What's been bugging the Fu's?

Learning to embrace age differences

Different Swinging Styles

And being in the moment... (Thank you Doris!)

Also... Halloween Party recap!

We're going to the Moon Party at Pace Bend Park... come join us!!

Episode Music "Never Saw the Point" by Cults.  Awesome music. :)

Sorry for our audio problems... damn USB mics are giving me fits on my slow laptop.