Episode 58: A Georgia Foursome

• First off...
• Today we hit the road to Atlanta to visit our good friends, the lovely Los Swingers!
• First some sad news -- thank you very much for all the love and support
• Girls Uncorked couples party! Los Swingers need another Girls Uncorked chapter in Northeast Georgia. 
• ABC Swinger news story
• Huffpo article on what to expect at a swingers resort
• Desire was a little tame for Los Swingers -- the resort should know how to plan for the rain!
• Topics...
• Ethics follow up
• What information should you share about other couples? The condom bandit and other ethics breaches
• Listener feedback on ethics
• Matt and Bianca's reddit post as it relates to ethics
• Swingers Demolish LaGuardia!
• A good discussion on meet and greets
• Los Swingers take a questions from the producers
• What have we been up to...
• Atlanta visit
• FuGrrl get Liberated
• Paradise Valley is a true paradise! What an incredible resource and swinger friendly
• Our triumphant return to The Trap! Sexy, classy, fun in the Diamond Club. A somewhat pricey addition to the best swinger club we've ever been to.
• Food, folks and fun!
• Closing remarks...
• Join us at Naughty in N'Awlins!
• Who was that on the last Swingercast podcast?
• Los Swingers enjoyed meeting John and Allie
• The SDC website is much better: Congratulations! (Still has a couple issues...)
• Spurs win!
• Check Los Swinger website The Swingers Hub. A great, free, resource

Episode music: "Georgia On My Mind" as performed by the incomparable Willie Nelson.

Episode 57: We Get Produced!

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Episode 52: My Goddamn Computer Lied to Me

Where's the Fu at?

• We went to New Orleans! Colette is the coolest. Amazing service. Uncompromising DJ. Awesome decor. Should definitely be on your must-do list. Plus we had a surprise encounter when we got there.
• A successful meet and greet with the San Antonio Pervs at the Bonham Exchange.

Odds and Ends

• The Pervy Little Social Club takes a misstep -- or how not to grow an orgy group.
• Sober Summer is drawing to a close this Sunday Funday.

Like little, boozy gems.

Topics

• Thoughts on the "Once Per Month" rule -- for newbies. Mix it up. You'll thank us later.
• Computers lie. Don't let your expectations get set too high for no good reason. What's up with no phone calls? Don't let people hide behind their computer. Get out and meet people in person.

Coming Up?
OktoberFUst und Herr Swap Fu's lederhosen

If it's wrong to love a pair of lederhosen, I don't want to be right.

Fill me up!

Shout Outs
Los Swingers' amazing Jello Shots http://www.losswingers.com/podcast
Bliss Bringers http://blissbringers.com/
The Black Ring effort http://blackringrighthand.com/
Club Colette New Orleans http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/
San Antonio Pervs (Find them on SDC and Kasidie)

This episode's song is "Royals" by New Zealand singer-songwriter Lorde, on her debut album Pure Heroine. Check her out!

Episode 51: A Vanity Project

What have we been up to?

• Sober summer; from solstice to labor day. Second year and going well.
• How do we swinger sober? Fake it 'til you make it!
• 4th of July at the Bonham Exchange: http://bonhamexchange.com

Topic:

• Discussion of the Vanity Fair video: http://video.vanityfair.com/watch/vanity-code-how-to-behave-at-a-swingers-party
• A discussion of the Swap Fu Swinger Event Plan
• How to escalate physically without being creepy
• Ms Swap Fu runs into a former coworker at one of our parties
• JB and Cal from Swinging Around on ice breakers, in response to listener question: http://swingin-around.blogspot.com/2013/05/episode-15-breaking-ice-for-playtime.html

Odds and Ends:

• Road trip with one stop... going to Club Colette in New Orleans, Friday, August 9. Want to join us? http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/
• Enjoying equipment talk with other podcasters in particular the Hidden Swing: http://hiddenswing.com
• Black Ring website is up! http://blackringrighthand.com

Also mentioned:

• We weren't there but we call out BBB: http://www.bbbevent.com
• Pick-Up Artist community taking a beating -- sexism and misogyny: http://www.salon.com/2013/06/19/kickstarter_pickup_artist_on_sleeping_with_women_expect_her_to_offer_some_resistance
• Much to learn from the Pick Up Artist Community... within reason: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist
• Another funny video... Shit Swingers Say: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5v-6_6qat4

Episode music: "Pompeii" by London's Bastille off their EP Bad Blood.  Hope you like it!

Episode 40: We're Not Experts, But We Know Some

What's the Fu been up to?

1. Co-hosting a party.  Shared responsibilities. Opportunity to meet new people.
2. Swinger friends rule because they get excited and bring drinks, snacks and toys!  They also care better care of your stuff and have fun!
3. Staying sober until 11:30 helped Mr Fu.
4. As hosts, be ready to meet people.  "Welcome to our home!"

Shout Outs:

1. Thank you for "flood" of responses to the gusher topic
1. Three doctors weighing in
2. We've got a lot of practice ahead of us
2. Younger swingers
1. They play, and
2. We've witnessed it! Thank you A and A

Plans:

1. Continue smaller get togethers
2. Gushing practice!
3. The New Years Eve dilemma

Our music for this episode is, once again, Metric.  This time the song is "Help, I'm Alive" off the album Fantasies.

Episode 35: Don't Tase me bro!

What's the Fu been up to? Ms Swap Fu gets her kink on with a guy in Lederhosen

Ms Swap Fu meets Johnny Taser
Booty call -- Buffalo Wild Wings interrupted

The Trojan Truck -- Where's the Wienermobile when you need it?

Hotel party -- Our party planned shared. Good setup

Topic
Self-improvement and the lifestyle

What can you work on? What do you do about what you can't work on?
Repetition is your best tool

The sweet gift of the emotionally mature relationship -- allowing yourself to feel big feelings without the world imploding

Announcements

Follow Fugrrl on Twitter!

Thanks for iTunes reviews

Shout out to South Carolina Lizard Sex


The music for this episode is in remembrance of the incomparable Amy Winehouse who died tragically since our last podcast. Ms Winehouse sang her way into my wife's heart to become her favorite singer. I too was fan. The song is "Back to Black" from the album of the same name. Rest in peace, sad little bird.

Episode 33: Swinger River Ramblings and Relearning to Flirt

Howdy!

Your friendly neighborhood swingers, the Fu's take you to the river as they rundown the highs and lows of the Krewe of Swingtown Guadalupe River Trip

Battling vanillas for river domination

In praise of Boris and Doris and the Swingercast Friends

Topic:
Mr Swap Fu talks about relearning to bringing flirting back to his vanilla life.  Where do you draw the line?

Announcements:
We're going to Vegas!  Come meet us!  Sept. 23 - 26

What a Canadian public health worker might look
like after visiting a swinger club back room.

In the news:
Canadian public health research zeros in on swingers
Ask Amy weighs in on swinging

Enjoy!!

In honor of our delirious weekend, we've chose "My Delirium" by Ladyhawke as the episode song.  The album is called Ladyhawke.  We've been listening to this album a lot... haven't fucked to it yet, but that's just a matter of time.

Episode 30: Friends first or frak first? What's a Fu to do?

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Episode 29: House Party Pro Tips... Be Safe. Be Polite. Be Fun.

News and Shout Outs:
Welcome to the swinger podcast world Sparky’s Open Source!  Bringing you swinging from a Canadian perspective
http://www.sparkysopensource.com

Planned Parenthood
http://www.plannedparenthood.org

Peoria Swinger Club Crackdown

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
https://www.ncsfreedom.org/

Non-negative news coverage of Swinging in San Antonio, from a Fox station no less
http://www.foxsanantonio.com/newsroom/top_stories/videos/vid_5826.shtml

Topics:
Ask Dan and Jennifer tips for house party success:  Be safe, be polite and be fun
http://www.danandjennifer.com/

How to building sexual tension prior to a swinger house party.  Ms Swap Fu shares how she stokes the fire all day long

Fashionably late?  How late is too late to arrive to a house party?

At the party...
Reporting back on Mr Swap Fu’s communication progress
Same room issues... people have different foreplay needs.  Same room can exacerbate this.
Ms Swap Fu relaxes in her favorite way
Expanding your repertoire -- get a training partner!
Ladies, keep your heels on during sex!

Episode music in honor of Cinco de Mayo "Que No Pare" by La Super Maquina

Episode 17: We're Big in Japan, but we're fucking huge in South Korea

Episode 17: We're Big in Japan, but we're fucking huge in South Korea

This Episode ran long, so we're splitting it in twain... do you really want to hear us drone on for more than an hour?

Part 1
Opening and thank yous
Interesting countries that follow us the Fu AKA what the hell is wrong with Canada?

Part 2
Hot tub terrors vs vanilla acceptance
The new club location vs buying in the vip area
Playdates still aren't working
Meeting less people but more people with similar preferences as a ratio

Support Planned Parenthood

We're out, Peace!

Episode 14: Who Wants an Olive?

Episode 14: Who Wants an Olive?

New show format! Like, there is a format and stuff now. lol

1. Intros, shout outs and thank you's
- Hi Cooper from Life on the Swingset! Hi Kidder Kapper from Sex is Fun and Bathtalk.
- We try to answer Kidder's question about re-engaging after a separate-room full swap encounter which leads to a discussion about our life before formally becoming swigners.
- Also, how are their still cheaters in the lifestyle. Say What?!

2. What have we been up to AKA Live & Learn with the Fu's
- Be prepared. Don't be like us and show up to an after party without supplies.
- Don't be afraid to make and exit. Pictionary is a fun game, but damn, so is Hide the Salami
- Ms Swap Fu talks about why her iPhone needs a tripod
- Club closing leads to opportunities. More Internet activities & meeting a hot couple at a vanilla club
- Meeting our first hotel couple again. The language barrier & trip to Paris

3. Weekly Topic
- How swinger attitudes cross over into your vanilla life?

Thoughts? Comments? Email us at swapfu@gmail.com 

Listen to Life on the Swingset, Sex is Fun and Bathtalk Week

Support Planned Parenthood!

Episode Song: "Dark Halls" by Au Revoir Simone

Episode 1: Swap Fu Begins

Show notes:
A very brief introduction of Mr. and Ms. Swap Fu is followed by the reason we decided to get "formal" about swinging. We talk about our first club visit. First impressions of the place and the people. We also have a fun bit about PDA. We end the podcast with a brief plug for Planned Parenthood.

I did a quick and dirty job of editing out anything that would identify our city, the club we attended and the people we met there. I think it's clean enough. ;)

Impressions:
This podcasting shit isn't easy. A lot clunkier than I thought. Getting the ball rolling was a challenge, but once we hit our stride, we couldn't shut up. lol. I cut it back to 24 minutes or so, but we could have done an hour without a problem. I think we'll keep it to 20 - 30 minutes every other week. The next edit will go quicker. I moved to my old editing environment, Sony Vegas. It's meant for video but it also does audio editing very well and it is what I'm used to.

The music is Jah Roots playing "Soul Trouble" which was released with a Podsafe license. I may switch it next time something a little more modern. What do you think?

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All comments welcome! Stay tuned for Episode 2: Swap Fu vs. the Smog Monster