Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Episode 58: A Georgia Foursome

  • First off...
    • Today we hit the road to Atlanta to visit our good friends, the lovely Los Swingers!
    • First some sad news -- thank you very much for all the love and support
    • Girls Uncorked couples party! Los Swingers need another Girls Uncorked chapter in Northeast Georgia. 
    • ABC Swinger news story
    • Huffpo article on what to expect at a swingers resort
    • Desire was a little tame for Los Swingers -- the resort should know how to plan for the rain!
  • Topics...
    • Ethics follow up
      • What information should you share about other couples? The condom bandit and other ethics breaches
      • Listener feedback on ethics
    • Matt and Bianca's reddit post as it relates to ethics
  • What have we been up to...
    • Atlanta visit
      • FuGrrl get Liberated
      • Paradise Valley is a true paradise! What an incredible resource and swinger friendly
      • Our triumphant return to The Trap! Sexy, classy, fun in the Diamond Club. A somewhat pricey addition to the best swinger club we've ever been to.
      • Food, folks and fun!
  • Closing remarks...
    • Join us at Naughty in N'Awlins!
    • Who was that on the last Swingercast podcast?
    • Los Swingers enjoyed meeting John and Allie
    • The SDC website is much better: Congratulations! (Still has a couple issues...)
    • Spurs win!
    • Check Los Swinger website The Swingers Hub. A great, free, resource
Episode music: "Georgia On My Mind" as performed by the incomparable Willie Nelson.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Episode 57: We Get Produced!

What’s up?

  • Summer is here.  We’re hot in San Antonio!
  • We have a listener producer, Debbie from DebbienMike on Kasidie :)

Swingers in the news

  • Quick news item - Two police officer brothers having a swinger party with their wives.  One wife was not into it and got punched by the other wife. the police were called in to reinstate peace :)
  • Dan Savage’s, Savage Lovecast podcast episode 396 started with a positive rant about Swingers and swinging. http://www.savagelovecast.com

(Stand by for technical difficulties.)

  • Best summer ever! Pool Days! Cooking, playing games, hanging out at the pool. Invited a few couples over on a Saturday or Sunday for games and summer fun.
  • Playing games
  • Thinking up ideas for more parties.
  • Participating in scientific study about non-monogamy. Interviewed by a “baby dyke” student for her sociology research paper.


  • Getting yearly physicals. Yes we’re strong healthy people!
  • Code of Conduct/Ethics for Swingers

Mrs Fu shares a list she found…
  1. Be safe
  2. Have fun
  3. Don’t fight
  4. Don’t cheat
  5. Respect other wants
  6. Respect other sex
  7. Meet other sex’s parents
  8. Don’t be shy
  9. Be nice
  10. Be good!
...at a Junior High Dating web page!
  • Our code of conduct suggestions:
    • Respect others time.  Cancel, don’t stand up.
    • Respect limits, rules, boundaries of others. Condom rule.
    • Respect the couple as a couple, communicate with both of them. Don’t cut one half out. All 4 talking insures dates get going. Four can’t talk, four can’t meet!
    • No punching!

Parting Thoughts and Feedback

  • Send us your funny stories about talking to your doctors.
  • Send us feedback about code of conduct for swingers.
  • On Kasidie a single guy, Cherokee101 has a write up of Single Guy Code of Conduct for the Lifestyle.
  • Naughty in N’Awlins we’re coming! http://swingercast.com/travel-parties/nawty.html

Shout outs

  • To our friends at Desire:
    • John and Allie Swingercast
    • Swaplicity from San Antonio
    • Los Swingers: See in July
    • Mike Litoris - great screen name, met at Desire last year!
  • Go Spurs Go! 1in 0 San Antonio! [Sadly now 1 and 1]

  • Forgot to mention our trip to Dallas to hang with the Avergae Swingers! Thanks for host guys!

If you can’t find the Fus, you’re not looking!

Episode music: “Fancy” by Iggy Azalea off the album The New Classic

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Episode 56: We're So This Summer

---Corrected Euless Meet and Greet Date! It's May 30 not May 31. Sorry!---

Thank you for joining us once again!

FuGrrl is loving being Girls Uncorked chapter hostess!

  • The new Girl Uncorked chapter in the Texas Hill Country
  • A Girls Uncorked is coming to St. Louis, courtesy of a San Antonio transplant
  • For more Girl Uncorked information go to: http://www.girlsuncorked.com

Meet and Greets with Average Swingers

The Black Ring!

Impromptu Get Togethers

  • 15 couples out of nowhere? Why plan?
  • Thanks to Mr. Camo from Camoandlace for helping with pool heater. All those naked boobies are in your honor!

San Antonio Players

  • We're down to one club in San Antonio. Players is awesome but competition is always good.
  • Come to the Kasidie meet and greet at Players San Antonio the third Friday of every month.
  • More information about San Antonio Players http://www.playersclubsatx.com

Time Wasters or What Are We Going to Bitch About Today?
  • The Peter and Lois maneuver: Peter tries to make plans without first talking to Lois leading to broken dates and wasted time. Listen for the solution!
  • Mr. Swap Fu learns a lesson on dealing with bad instant messengers
  • Using the Fade Away. Watch the Garfunkel and Oates video! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fr8HKRTavM0
First Impressions

  • Don't assume your lack of chemistry is due to what you think
  • Give people a few chances

Swirl Party Etiquette

  • No recruiting!
  • Unwelcome advances during a swirl event put Ms. Swap Fu off
  • Don't inadvertently out your swinger friends
  • Keep swinging private and no hanky panky in front of the vanillas
Going to Naughty In N'awlins August 6 - 10 with Swingercast and Average Swingers! https://secureregistrationonline.com/new_nin/signup.php?affiliateId=1694&c=1

We miss Los Swingers! Hope you're enjoying the New Trapeze!

We're looking for a Producer! If you're interested, please email us! swapfu@gmail.com

Interested in the topic of penis size? FuGrrl recommends Unhung Hero on Netflix.

Episode Song: "The Middle" by Jimmy Eat World

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Episode 55: The Fu Plus Two

Holy shit! We interviewed a couple!
The mics were out after a date so we interviewed a couple victims friends.

  • Setting expectations
  • Friends First vs Fuck First
  • Mr E talks about daring -- get out there!
  • Ms J discusses the play benefits of separate room play at house parties
  • Discussing insecurities of your partner being with someone else -- turning that into a positive
  • Be willing to learn from past experiences
  • Craig's List #1: The Pinky Finger Incident
  • Craig's List #2: The Cheating Remedy
  • Craig's List #3: Success!
  • Talking up the swinger websites
  • From FMF pillow talk to real life
Many thanks to Mr E and Ms J for their great interview.

Episode song is "Houdini" by the Los Angeles band Foster the People on the album Torches. Torches is a "blind buy". It's such a good album you can just buy it on faith. Pick it up!

Monday, January 27, 2014

Episode 54: Never a Place for Complacency

Endless gratitude to our listeners for sticking with us all this time!!

What's up?

  • So long Club Prestige! Better to have two clubs than one.
  • A vanilla New Years Eve
  • Mr and Ms Swap Fu alternate off-nights at a couple events
  • Feeding the community by introducing people
  • There's more swingers out there than you think
  • FACT Check: There are 470,000 households in San Antonio not 60,000. It is estimated that one in 200 couples swing. 23,000 swinging couples in San Antonio? Can this be?

  • After four years we still need to keep communicating and be careful with what you take for granted.
  • An expanding after party gets sprung on FuGrrl: Auto Stress Mode!
  • We had a disconnect at a party -- when to leave? Forgot to check in. Beware of physical discomfort in uncomfortable situations.
Odds and Ends
  • Should we have a Swinger Super Bowl Party? What are your sexy Super Bowl memories?
  • Is it selfish not to help a couple enter the lifestyle because you don't want them around?
  • Much love to SA Pervs and their excellent Black Friday Pub Crawl
  • Love to T and M for the super-fun semi-lifestyle cookie exchange
  • Love to Twattwirler and congrats to M on her RN!
  • Love to Los Swingers! Thank you for visiting us once again!
  • O5 was a raging success; triple blowjob, still unfulfilled
  • Doing business with swingers... the naked network
  • Girls Uncorked simply continues to rock
  • Trojan Supras are terrible!
Episode song "Safe and Sound" by Capital Cities off the album In A Tidal Wave of Mystery

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Episode 53: Single Swinging

What's the Fu been up to?
OktoberFUst of course! What a great party!
- We welcomed our friends from Georgia -- Looking forward to your next visit.
- Dodging vanillas
- Setting up with a little help from our friends

Meeting swingers at a bar for Beer Bingo
- A fun, low-pressure way to meet swingers

FuGrrl on Twitter on hiatus for the sake of safety

Singles in the swinging lifestyle
- Are singles swingers? What are they risking?
- Mr Swap Fu bends his brain doing some swinger math
- Ms Swap Fu changes her mind

Beware the online trolls!

Happy Halloween!

Shout Outs
- Los Swingers!
- C and S Youarebootiful!
- Doug and Holly - Host Couple on SDC
- SA Pervs
- Ms K hostess with the mostest for San Antonio Girls Uncorked
- All our awesome dates!

We quote an article from ShareYourSecrets.net

The voice of the single man in the LifestyleLifestyle Outloud

First-Time fun at our OktoberFUst courtesy of Youarebootiful

Episode Song "My Leather, My Fur, My Nails" by Stepdad on the album Wildlife Pop. Please please please get this album! So much fun!

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Episode 52: My Goddamn Computer Lied to Me

Where's the Fu at?

  • We went to New Orleans! Colette is the coolest. Amazing service. Uncompromising DJ. Awesome decor. Should definitely be on your must-do list. Plus we had a surprise encounter when we got there.
  • A successful meet and greet with the San Antonio Pervs at the Bonham Exchange.
Odds and Ends

  • The Pervy Little Social Club takes a misstep -- or how not to grow an orgy group.
  • Sober Summer is drawing to a close this Sunday Funday.
Like little, boozy gems.


  • Thoughts on the "Once Per Month" rule -- for newbies. Mix it up. You'll thank us later.
  • Computers lie. Don't let your expectations get set too high for no good reason. What's up with no phone calls? Don't let people hide behind their computer. Get out and meet people in person.

Coming Up?
OktoberFUst und Herr Swap Fu's lederhosen

If it's wrong to love a pair of lederhosen, I don't want to be right.

Fill me up!

Shout Outs
Los Swingers' amazing Jello Shots http://www.losswingers.com/podcast
Bliss Bringers http://blissbringers.com/
The Black Ring effort http://blackringrighthand.com/
Club Colette New Orleans http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/
San Antonio Pervs (Find them on SDC and Kasidie)

This episode's song is "Royals" by New Zealand singer-songwriter Lorde, on her debut album Pure Heroine. Check her out!