Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Episode 55: The Fu Plus Two

Holy shit! We interviewed a couple!
The mics were out after a date so we interviewed a couple victims friends.

  • Setting expectations
  • Friends First vs Fuck First
  • Mr E talks about daring -- get out there!
  • Ms J discusses the play benefits of separate room play at house parties
  • Discussing insecurities of your partner being with someone else -- turning that into a positive
  • Be willing to learn from past experiences
  • Craig's List #1: The Pinky Finger Incident
  • Craig's List #2: The Cheating Remedy
  • Craig's List #3: Success!
  • Talking up the swinger websites
  • From FMF pillow talk to real life
Many thanks to Mr E and Ms J for their great interview.

Episode song is "Houdini" by the Los Angeles band Foster the People on the album Torches. Torches is a "blind buy". It's such a good album you can just buy it on faith. Pick it up!

Monday, January 27, 2014

Episode 54: Never a Place for Complacency

Endless gratitude to our listeners for sticking with us all this time!!

What's up?

  • So long Club Prestige! Better to have two clubs than one.
  • A vanilla New Years Eve
  • Mr and Ms Swap Fu alternate off-nights at a couple events
  • Feeding the community by introducing people
  • There's more swingers out there than you think
  • FACT Check: There are 470,000 households in San Antonio not 60,000. It is estimated that one in 200 couples swing. 23,000 swinging couples in San Antonio? Can this be?

  • After four years we still need to keep communicating and be careful with what you take for granted.
  • An expanding after party gets sprung on FuGrrl: Auto Stress Mode!
  • We had a disconnect at a party -- when to leave? Forgot to check in. Beware of physical discomfort in uncomfortable situations.
Odds and Ends
  • Should we have a Swinger Super Bowl Party? What are your sexy Super Bowl memories?
  • Is it selfish not to help a couple enter the lifestyle because you don't want them around?
  • Much love to SA Pervs and their excellent Black Friday Pub Crawl
  • Love to T and M for the super-fun semi-lifestyle cookie exchange
  • Love to Twattwirler and congrats to M on her RN!
  • Love to Los Swingers! Thank you for visiting us once again!
  • O5 was a raging success; triple blowjob, still unfulfilled
  • Doing business with swingers... the naked network
  • Girls Uncorked simply continues to rock
  • Trojan Supras are terrible!
Episode song "Safe and Sound" by Capital Cities off the album In A Tidal Wave of Mystery

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Episode 53: Single Swinging

What's the Fu been up to?
OktoberFUst of course! What a great party!
- We welcomed our friends from Georgia -- Looking forward to your next visit.
- Dodging vanillas
- Setting up with a little help from our friends

Meeting swingers at a bar for Beer Bingo
- A fun, low-pressure way to meet swingers

FuGrrl on Twitter on hiatus for the sake of safety

Singles in the swinging lifestyle
- Are singles swingers? What are they risking?
- Mr Swap Fu bends his brain doing some swinger math
- Ms Swap Fu changes her mind

Beware the online trolls!

Happy Halloween!

Shout Outs
- Los Swingers!
- C and S Youarebootiful!
- Doug and Holly - Host Couple on SDC
- SA Pervs
- Ms K hostess with the mostest for San Antonio Girls Uncorked
- All our awesome dates!

We quote an article from ShareYourSecrets.net

The voice of the single man in the LifestyleLifestyle Outloud

First-Time fun at our OktoberFUst courtesy of Youarebootiful

Episode Song "My Leather, My Fur, My Nails" by Stepdad on the album Wildlife Pop. Please please please get this album! So much fun!

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Episode 52: My Goddamn Computer Lied to Me

Where's the Fu at?

  • We went to New Orleans! Colette is the coolest. Amazing service. Uncompromising DJ. Awesome decor. Should definitely be on your must-do list. Plus we had a surprise encounter when we got there.
  • A successful meet and greet with the San Antonio Pervs at the Bonham Exchange.
Odds and Ends

  • The Pervy Little Social Club takes a misstep -- or how not to grow an orgy group.
  • Sober Summer is drawing to a close this Sunday Funday.
Like little, boozy gems.


  • Thoughts on the "Once Per Month" rule -- for newbies. Mix it up. You'll thank us later.
  • Computers lie. Don't let your expectations get set too high for no good reason. What's up with no phone calls? Don't let people hide behind their computer. Get out and meet people in person.

Coming Up?
OktoberFUst und Herr Swap Fu's lederhosen

If it's wrong to love a pair of lederhosen, I don't want to be right.

Fill me up!

Shout Outs
Los Swingers' amazing Jello Shots http://www.losswingers.com/podcast
Bliss Bringers http://blissbringers.com/
The Black Ring effort http://blackringrighthand.com/
Club Colette New Orleans http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/
San Antonio Pervs (Find them on SDC and Kasidie)

This episode's song is "Royals" by New Zealand singer-songwriter Lorde, on her debut album Pure Heroine. Check her out!

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Episode 51: A Vanity Project

What have we been up to?

  • Sober summer; from solstice to labor day. Second year and going well.
  • How do we swinger sober? Fake it 'til you make it!
  • 4th of July at the Bonham Exchange: http://bonhamexchange.com


Odds and Ends:

Also mentioned:

Episode music: "Pompeii" by London's Bastille off their EP Bad Blood.  Hope you like it!

Monday, June 17, 2013

Episode 50: Making the Tough Call to Cancel

Happy Father's Day to you and Happy 50th Episode to us!

(If you like listening to Mr Swap Fu, this episode is for you.)

Check out the Swinger Subreddit for good swinger discussions:
Good discussions on orgy management, threesomes vs foursomes and younger swingers woes.

Knowing when to throw in the towel. Cancelling a date when you're feeling down for the sake of your company.
Went to the coed Girl Uncorked party! Big fun. Seeing old friends and making new ones.
Party too big? Hosting vs socializing and the role of alcohol in both. We discuss the dirty business of party list management.

Frigate Bird Threesome in the Galapagos Islands
Courtesy of Los Swingers

Shout Outs:
Los Swingers -- Thanks for the great photo!
Viva the Black Ring!
The Hidden Swing Podcast out of Oklahoma -- Thanks for the compliment about Ms Fu's voice!
Texas Social Club community on SDC run by Mr. K and the Swinger Fairy

Swinger Apps! Chance Mingle for iPhone and SLS for Android

Please call us. Tweet us. Email us.

Episode song by Imagine Dragons "On Top of the World" on the album Night Visions

Friday, May 10, 2013

Episode 49: Stop Annoying Your Partner

What's the Fu been up to?
  • Desire trip -- borrowed partners and the soggy grapes of wrath
  • Career changes and plane old problems
  • An orgiastic experience. More more more.
Tonight's Topic
What does your partner do that annoys you?
  • Maybe a size queen should take a turn for the team.
  • Side bar about Pillow Princesses
  • Why won't my wife have rough sex with me?
  • Always being late is annoying your partner.
  • Drop the Kabuki and get her to the playroom quicker!
  • Make sure your partner is taken care of before you get busy with the other woman.
Shout outs to our fellow podcasters:  Find them on iTunes!
Los Swingers
Average Swingers
Lifestyle Outloud
Swinging Around
Less Than Vanilla

And also to our friends Mike Litoris and Ms Litoris
Welcome back to the guy with the hat!

Read the awesome Reddit Q&A with the marketing manager from Trapeze:

Please join us at Desire in 2014!

Episode song "The Keepers" by Santigold. The album is Master of My Make-Believe. Wow, what an extraordinary talent!

Thanks you for the awesome feedback!