Episode 63: Top Ten Update and Swinging in Mexico

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Episode 62: Swingers vs Cheaters and Other Sticky Matters

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Episode 61: Getting Your Dinky in a Pickle

Quick note...

Sorry this is a little late -- we recorded on 10/10/2014 but I've been super busy.

Also, we repeatedly refer to the episode song as Fine Shine by The Period Ring -- it's Fineshrine by Purity Ring. We're goofy, we know.

What’s the Fu been up to?

Above average pub crawling with the Average Swingers

Pre-Crawl Pizza at Home Slice

Violet Crown Social Club

Shangri La

Easy Tiger Bakery

The Rooftop

Coyote Ugly

San Diego Trivia adventure with amazing people

Talking to a couple that started swinging partly because of the podcast

OktoberFUst Prep -- Lederhosen Woes

Topic

We revisit the Lost Episode 23 from way back in 2011

Still no podcasts from Australia? What's happening there?

Planned Parenthood update? The news ain't good in Texas

Swinger cover stories -- How do you handle a thousand cocks? Put em in a calendar? We need a cock release.

Blind dates vs blurry dates

Single people! Please speak up!
The once per month rule and other ways to keep it cool in your swinger life

Parting Thoughts and Feedback

SLS Radio Request: Our debate -- Is it an endorsement

Episode Music selection discussion:  Democracy or Dictatorship?

News Items: Careful Swingers. Any of your misdeeds are blamed on the Swinging Lifestyle.

1. Christian swingers story going strong
2. Bad renters
3. Bad AirBnB'ers
4. Three people shot outside a Swing Club. Except they weren't at the swinger club

Shout outs

Pub Crawl People!

Support Planned Parenthood!

Episode music "Fineshrine" by Purity Ring (Not Fineshine by The Period Ring... super sorry.) Selected by FuGrrl

Episode 60: We Got Naughty in N'Awlins and More

Intro and Welcome/What’s the Fu be up to?

Production note: Sorry about the boomy audio!

Back from Naughty N’awlins

DSI

 Drinking plan

 Sexing plan

Restaurants and Bars:

 The Beaches

 Razoos

 Johnny's Po Boys on St Louis

 Felix

 Red Slipper Cafe

 Royals House Bloody Mary

Review NIN schedule

WTF is a contribulator?!

Three mini topics

People that make me feel a little shittier every time you see them. AVOID!

Mr Fu gets grouchy about the proposed Swinger flag.
Email “Calling Dibbs”

Parting Thoughts and Feedback

Gillette body shaver

Bob’s Burgers steals Ms Fu’s idea

Burning Man Speed Boner competition

Pool Dazes winding down

Mr Fu’s toga Birthday Party

Bonus Podcast this month, an hour from NIN with

     Average Swingers, Swingercast, Me and Ms Jones

Shout outs

SDC free 7 day trial

All the birthday people September 5th!

Pub Crawl to celebrate.

Episode Song is "Set it Off" by Peaches. We enjoy listening to this little gem while enjoying a few post NiN in a gay bar in the French Quarter. We miss you NOLA!

Episode 59: Do You Hear That Clique-ing Noise?

What's up? Well...

• Thank you Los Swingers for hospitality once again!
• Tost rocked it out for FuGrrl's birthday! Full circle and then some.

In the news...

• Herman Munster Gets Rapey: http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-dressed-herman-munster-raped-3934576 (Will selfies replace mug shots?)
• 15 Celebrities Swingers: http://madamenoire.com/453365/15-celebrity-swingers/
• Sex Facts!: http://www.yourtango.com/2014220165/7-absolutely-insane-sex-facts-around-world?utm_source=huffingtonpost.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=pubexchange

Keep moving!

• Traveling to La Jolla for work and fun! Do yourself a favor and hit up Babycakes for Sunday Funday! http://www.babycakessandiego.com/babys-bar/church Sundays in San Diego are a goddamn party!
• Hi 79couple! Thanks for the amazing time! Check out there fun meet and greets.
• That song Fancy's got a fuck beat to it. More than The Rentals? Barry White is out. Marvin Gaye? No way. Six Underground by Sneakers Pimps.

Topix

• The Sizeist vs FuGrrl: Swinger Superhero
• What do people really look like in the Lifestyle? Thank you Jaye for the topic. What's hot? Is it just looks?
• Social is not a social service. People have the right to choose. Choose what's hot to you and be hot back.
• Then things get cliquey! Are you in a clique? Because you're being tough on newbies.
• Mr Swap Fu goes on a loony rant and weirds out FuGrrl

Parting thoughts

• Flirt? Meh.
• Get Tested!!
• Meet us, the Average Swingers and the Hidden Swing in Austin! Details on Kasidie.
• We want donuts!
• Naughty in N'Awlins! Red dresses. Red dresses everywhere!

Shout outs!

• Thanks for the awesome iTunes reviews
• Happy Dirty 30 Anniversary to Ms T and Mr K -- Join their Texas Social Club
• Question: Are there enough meeting and greets happening?

Song? Clique by Kayne. Yeah, that's right.

Episode 58: A Georgia Foursome

• First off...
• Today we hit the road to Atlanta to visit our good friends, the lovely Los Swingers!
• First some sad news -- thank you very much for all the love and support
• Girls Uncorked couples party! Los Swingers need another Girls Uncorked chapter in Northeast Georgia. 
• ABC Swinger news story
• Huffpo article on what to expect at a swingers resort
• Desire was a little tame for Los Swingers -- the resort should know how to plan for the rain!
• Topics...
• Ethics follow up
• What information should you share about other couples? The condom bandit and other ethics breaches
• Listener feedback on ethics
• Matt and Bianca's reddit post as it relates to ethics
• Swingers Demolish LaGuardia!
• A good discussion on meet and greets
• Los Swingers take a questions from the producers
• What have we been up to...
• Atlanta visit
• FuGrrl get Liberated
• Paradise Valley is a true paradise! What an incredible resource and swinger friendly
• Our triumphant return to The Trap! Sexy, classy, fun in the Diamond Club. A somewhat pricey addition to the best swinger club we've ever been to.
• Food, folks and fun!
• Closing remarks...
• Join us at Naughty in N'Awlins!
• Who was that on the last Swingercast podcast?
• Los Swingers enjoyed meeting John and Allie
• The SDC website is much better: Congratulations! (Still has a couple issues...)
• Spurs win!
• Check Los Swinger website The Swingers Hub. A great, free, resource

Episode music: "Georgia On My Mind" as performed by the incomparable Willie Nelson.

Episode 57: We Get Produced!

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Episode 56: We're So This Summer

---Corrected Euless Meet and Greet Date! It's May 30 not May 31. Sorry!---

Thank you for joining us once again!

FuGrrl is loving being Girls Uncorked chapter hostess!

• The new Girl Uncorked chapter in the Texas Hill Country
• A Girls Uncorked is coming to St. Louis, courtesy of a San Antonio transplant
• For more Girl Uncorked information go to: http://www.girlsuncorked.com

Meet and Greets with Average Swingers

• Euless May 30
• Austin September 13
• Check out the Average Swingers on iTunes and at http://www.averageswingers.com

The Black Ring!

• More info: http://www.blackringrighthand.com
• Follow the Black Ring on Twitter: @blkring

Impromptu Get Togethers

• 15 couples out of nowhere? Why plan?
• Thanks to Mr. Camo from Camoandlace for helping with pool heater. All those naked boobies are in your honor!

San Antonio Players

• We're down to one club in San Antonio. Players is awesome but competition is always good.
• Come to the Kasidie meet and greet at Players San Antonio the third Friday of every month.
• More information about San Antonio Players http://www.playersclubsatx.com

Time Wasters or What Are We Going to Bitch About Today?

• The Peter and Lois maneuver: Peter tries to make plans without first talking to Lois leading to broken dates and wasted time. Listen for the solution!
• Mr. Swap Fu learns a lesson on dealing with bad instant messengers
• Using the Fade Away. Watch the Garfunkel and Oates video! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fr8HKRTavM0

First Impressions

• Don't assume your lack of chemistry is due to what you think
• Give people a few chances

Swirl Party Etiquette

• No recruiting!
• Unwelcome advances during a swirl event put Ms. Swap Fu off
• Don't inadvertently out your swinger friends
• Keep swinging private and no hanky panky in front of the vanillas

Going to Naughty In N'awlins August 6 - 10 with Swingercast and Average Swingers! https://secureregistrationonline.com/new_nin/signup.php?affiliateId=1694&c=1

We miss Los Swingers! Hope you're enjoying the New Trapeze!

We're looking for a Producer! If you're interested, please email us! swapfu@gmail.com

Interested in the topic of penis size? FuGrrl recommends Unhung Hero on Netflix.

Episode Song: "The Middle" by Jimmy Eat World

Episode 55: The Fu Plus Two

Holy shit! We interviewed a couple!
The mics were out after a date so we interviewed a couple victims friends.

Pre...

• Setting expectations
• Friends First vs Fuck First
• Mr E talks about daring -- get out there!
• Ms J discusses the play benefits of separate room play at house parties
• Discussing insecurities of your partner being with someone else -- turning that into a positive
• Be willing to learn from past experiences

Post...

• Craig's List #1: The Pinky Finger Incident
• Craig's List #2: The Cheating Remedy
• Craig's List #3: Success!
• Talking up the swinger websites
• From FMF pillow talk to real life

Many thanks to Mr E and Ms J for their great interview.

Episode song is "Houdini" by the Los Angeles band Foster the People on the album Torches. Torches is a "blind buy". It's such a good album you can just buy it on faith. Pick it up!

Episode 54: Never a Place for Complacency

Endless gratitude to our listeners for sticking with us all this time!!

What's up?

• So long Club Prestige! Better to have two clubs than one.
• A vanilla New Years Eve
• Mr and Ms Swap Fu alternate off-nights at a couple events
• Feeding the community by introducing people
• There's more swingers out there than you think
• FACT Check: There are 470,000 households in San Antonio not 60,000. It is estimated that one in 200 couples swing. 23,000 swinging couples in San Antonio? Can this be?

Topic

• After four years we still need to keep communicating and be careful with what you take for granted.
• An expanding after party gets sprung on FuGrrl: Auto Stress Mode!
• We had a disconnect at a party -- when to leave? Forgot to check in. Beware of physical discomfort in uncomfortable situations.

Odds and Ends

• Should we have a Swinger Super Bowl Party? What are your sexy Super Bowl memories?
• Is it selfish not to help a couple enter the lifestyle because you don't want them around?
• Much love to SA Pervs and their excellent Black Friday Pub Crawl
• Love to T and M for the super-fun semi-lifestyle cookie exchange
• Love to Twattwirler and congrats to M on her RN!
• Love to Los Swingers! Thank you for visiting us once again!
• O5 was a raging success; triple blowjob, still unfulfilled
• Doing business with swingers... the naked network
• Girls Uncorked simply continues to rock
• Trojan Supras are terrible!

Episode song "Safe and Sound" by Capital Cities off the album In A Tidal Wave of Mystery