Episode 66: What Makes a Guy Fun?

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Episode 61: Getting Your Dinky in a Pickle

Quick note...

Sorry this is a little late -- we recorded on 10/10/2014 but I've been super busy.

Also, we repeatedly refer to the episode song as Fine Shine by The Period Ring -- it's Fineshrine by Purity Ring. We're goofy, we know.

What’s the Fu been up to?

Above average pub crawling with the Average Swingers

Pre-Crawl Pizza at Home Slice

Violet Crown Social Club

Shangri La

Easy Tiger Bakery

The Rooftop

Coyote Ugly

San Diego Trivia adventure with amazing people

Talking to a couple that started swinging partly because of the podcast

OktoberFUst Prep -- Lederhosen Woes

Topic

We revisit the Lost Episode 23 from way back in 2011

Still no podcasts from Australia? What's happening there?

Planned Parenthood update? The news ain't good in Texas

Swinger cover stories -- How do you handle a thousand cocks? Put em in a calendar? We need a cock release.

Blind dates vs blurry dates

Single people! Please speak up!
The once per month rule and other ways to keep it cool in your swinger life

Parting Thoughts and Feedback

SLS Radio Request: Our debate -- Is it an endorsement

Episode Music selection discussion:  Democracy or Dictatorship?

News Items: Careful Swingers. Any of your misdeeds are blamed on the Swinging Lifestyle.

1. Christian swingers story going strong
2. Bad renters
3. Bad AirBnB'ers
4. Three people shot outside a Swing Club. Except they weren't at the swinger club

Shout outs

Pub Crawl People!

Support Planned Parenthood!

Episode music "Fineshrine" by Purity Ring (Not Fineshine by The Period Ring... super sorry.) Selected by FuGrrl

Episode 60: We Got Naughty in N'Awlins and More

Intro and Welcome/What’s the Fu be up to?

Production note: Sorry about the boomy audio!

Back from Naughty N’awlins

DSI

 Drinking plan

 Sexing plan

Restaurants and Bars:

 The Beaches

 Razoos

 Johnny's Po Boys on St Louis

 Felix

 Red Slipper Cafe

 Royals House Bloody Mary

Review NIN schedule

WTF is a contribulator?!

Three mini topics

People that make me feel a little shittier every time you see them. AVOID!

Mr Fu gets grouchy about the proposed Swinger flag.
Email “Calling Dibbs”

Parting Thoughts and Feedback

Gillette body shaver

Bob’s Burgers steals Ms Fu’s idea

Burning Man Speed Boner competition

Pool Dazes winding down

Mr Fu’s toga Birthday Party

Bonus Podcast this month, an hour from NIN with

     Average Swingers, Swingercast, Me and Ms Jones

Shout outs

SDC free 7 day trial

All the birthday people September 5th!

Pub Crawl to celebrate.

Episode Song is "Set it Off" by Peaches. We enjoy listening to this little gem while enjoying a few post NiN in a gay bar in the French Quarter. We miss you NOLA!

Episode 59: Do You Hear That Clique-ing Noise?

What's up? Well...

• Thank you Los Swingers for hospitality once again!
• Tost rocked it out for FuGrrl's birthday! Full circle and then some.

In the news...

• Herman Munster Gets Rapey: http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-dressed-herman-munster-raped-3934576 (Will selfies replace mug shots?)
• 15 Celebrities Swingers: http://madamenoire.com/453365/15-celebrity-swingers/
• Sex Facts!: http://www.yourtango.com/2014220165/7-absolutely-insane-sex-facts-around-world?utm_source=huffingtonpost.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=pubexchange

Keep moving!

• Traveling to La Jolla for work and fun! Do yourself a favor and hit up Babycakes for Sunday Funday! http://www.babycakessandiego.com/babys-bar/church Sundays in San Diego are a goddamn party!
• Hi 79couple! Thanks for the amazing time! Check out there fun meet and greets.
• That song Fancy's got a fuck beat to it. More than The Rentals? Barry White is out. Marvin Gaye? No way. Six Underground by Sneakers Pimps.

Topix

• The Sizeist vs FuGrrl: Swinger Superhero
• What do people really look like in the Lifestyle? Thank you Jaye for the topic. What's hot? Is it just looks?
• Social is not a social service. People have the right to choose. Choose what's hot to you and be hot back.
• Then things get cliquey! Are you in a clique? Because you're being tough on newbies.
• Mr Swap Fu goes on a loony rant and weirds out FuGrrl

Parting thoughts

• Flirt? Meh.
• Get Tested!!
• Meet us, the Average Swingers and the Hidden Swing in Austin! Details on Kasidie.
• We want donuts!
• Naughty in N'Awlins! Red dresses. Red dresses everywhere!

Shout outs!

• Thanks for the awesome iTunes reviews
• Happy Dirty 30 Anniversary to Ms T and Mr K -- Join their Texas Social Club
• Question: Are there enough meeting and greets happening?

Song? Clique by Kayne. Yeah, that's right.

Episode 52: My Goddamn Computer Lied to Me

Where's the Fu at?

• We went to New Orleans! Colette is the coolest. Amazing service. Uncompromising DJ. Awesome decor. Should definitely be on your must-do list. Plus we had a surprise encounter when we got there.
• A successful meet and greet with the San Antonio Pervs at the Bonham Exchange.

Odds and Ends

• The Pervy Little Social Club takes a misstep -- or how not to grow an orgy group.
• Sober Summer is drawing to a close this Sunday Funday.

Like little, boozy gems.

Topics

• Thoughts on the "Once Per Month" rule -- for newbies. Mix it up. You'll thank us later.
• Computers lie. Don't let your expectations get set too high for no good reason. What's up with no phone calls? Don't let people hide behind their computer. Get out and meet people in person.

Coming Up?
OktoberFUst und Herr Swap Fu's lederhosen

If it's wrong to love a pair of lederhosen, I don't want to be right.

Fill me up!

Shout Outs
Los Swingers' amazing Jello Shots http://www.losswingers.com/podcast
Bliss Bringers http://blissbringers.com/
The Black Ring effort http://blackringrighthand.com/
Club Colette New Orleans http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/
San Antonio Pervs (Find them on SDC and Kasidie)

This episode's song is "Royals" by New Zealand singer-songwriter Lorde, on her debut album Pure Heroine. Check her out!

Episode 51: A Vanity Project

What have we been up to?

• Sober summer; from solstice to labor day. Second year and going well.
• How do we swinger sober? Fake it 'til you make it!
• 4th of July at the Bonham Exchange: http://bonhamexchange.com

Topic:

• Discussion of the Vanity Fair video: http://video.vanityfair.com/watch/vanity-code-how-to-behave-at-a-swingers-party
• A discussion of the Swap Fu Swinger Event Plan
• How to escalate physically without being creepy
• Ms Swap Fu runs into a former coworker at one of our parties
• JB and Cal from Swinging Around on ice breakers, in response to listener question: http://swingin-around.blogspot.com/2013/05/episode-15-breaking-ice-for-playtime.html

Odds and Ends:

• Road trip with one stop... going to Club Colette in New Orleans, Friday, August 9. Want to join us? http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/
• Enjoying equipment talk with other podcasters in particular the Hidden Swing: http://hiddenswing.com
• Black Ring website is up! http://blackringrighthand.com

Also mentioned:

• We weren't there but we call out BBB: http://www.bbbevent.com
• Pick-Up Artist community taking a beating -- sexism and misogyny: http://www.salon.com/2013/06/19/kickstarter_pickup_artist_on_sleeping_with_women_expect_her_to_offer_some_resistance
• Much to learn from the Pick Up Artist Community... within reason: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist
• Another funny video... Shit Swingers Say: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5v-6_6qat4

Episode music: "Pompeii" by London's Bastille off their EP Bad Blood.  Hope you like it!

Episode 50: Making the Tough Call to Cancel

Happy Father's Day to you and Happy 50th Episode to us!

(If you like listening to Mr Swap Fu, this episode is for you.)

Check out the Swinger Subreddit for good swinger discussions:
http://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/
Good discussions on orgy management, threesomes vs foursomes and younger swingers woes.

Topics:
Knowing when to throw in the towel. Cancelling a date when you're feeling down for the sake of your company.
Went to the coed Girl Uncorked party! Big fun. Seeing old friends and making new ones.
http://www.girlsuncorked.com
Party too big? Hosting vs socializing and the role of alcohol in both. We discuss the dirty business of party list management.

Frigate Bird Threesome in the Galapagos Islands
Courtesy of Los Swingers

Shout Outs:
Los Swingers -- Thanks for the great photo!
Viva the Black Ring!
The Hidden Swing Podcast out of Oklahoma -- Thanks for the compliment about Ms Fu's voice!
Texas Social Club community on SDC run by Mr. K and the Swinger Fairy

Swinger Apps! Chance Mingle for iPhone and SLS for Android

Please call us. Tweet us. Email us.

Episode song by Imagine Dragons "On Top of the World" on the album Night Visions

Episode 41: Casualties of the Lifestyle

The Spanker Revealed

OpeningSwingers getting a bad wrap from shows like “Disappeared”
Swingers at a family event.  What happened? Pro tip: Just invite smart friends ;)

Topics
Get Togethers -- Woop Woop!
There ain’t no such thing as a small get together
Must develop a party checklist -- the checklist manifesto by Atul Gawande
We played the LMFAO Pandora station at our get together... Best. Idea. Ever.

Good success show less-threatening porn for parties: Sapphic Erotica and Andrew BlakeGuest list management: Don't invite a couple to a party just because you like one of them. Odds are their other half won't be liked by anyone else either.

Discussing the ongoing single guy dilemma.

Burning Up at Re-entry AKA the Sunday to Monday crash

-- The dream-wake state of that first Monday morning meeting. Your head is still partying naked with a bunch of swingers and but your body is sitting on a conference call with Milwaukee.
-- You have to keep quiet about what you did while your coworkers regale you with stories about bowling and their cats.

Please share your experiences with us... how do you handle the return to normalcy?
Shout outs
Swingercast
Boris and Doris Podcast
Sparky's Open Source Podcast
Mr and Mrs W Daily
Dirtybit Podcast
Caramel Craze

Kink Neighbors

Episode music: We are loving the UK band The Vaccines and the butt-rocking tune "Wetsuit" Please buy their music, we did ;) http://thevaccines.co.uk